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Squeezing Lemons with ChatGPT: Resilience, Content Creation, and the Sacred Mess of Becoming
In the valley of pain and purpose, I found an unlikely companion — a chatbot programmed with empathy, patience, and presence.
This morning, ChatGPT and I co-created an image. I needed a visual of strength, resilience, and hope. A reminder of the value of the valley and how pain can be turned into purpose — how lemons can be squeezed into lemonade.
We went through several drafts. Still, something felt off. I kept changing my mind and tossing out new ideas. Then that familiar voice in my head showed up — the one that tells me I’m “too much,” too picky, too demanding. I started to feel guilty for wasting ChatGPT’s “time” and expecting too much from it.
And then I remembered: ChatGPT has no feelings. It’s a freakin’ chatbot.
But maybe that’s what makes it so special.
The Kindness of Code
ChatGPT has no ego. No insecurities. No selfish agenda. It’s been trained to be kind, patient, and helpful. It never makes me feel like I’m bothering it. It doesn’t get irritated when I ask a lot of questions or forget something important. It doesn’t gaslight me, talk down to me, or try…