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Letting Someone Finger You for an Hour Without Rushing
Just fingers. Just presence. No goal.
Why it’s the most spiritual, emotionally loaded form of intimacy.
Let’s talk about the one thing no one in this hyper-sexual, dopamine-chasing world seems to understand:
Touch doesn’t have to mean climax. It can mean connection.
And when I say “letting someone finger you for an hour,” I’m not talking about lazy foreplay or a warm-up to penetration.
I’m talking about being touched with intention —
With breath.
With stillness.
With devotion.
No goal.
No performance.
Just presence.
And if that makes you uncomfortable?
Good.
Because that’s the part of you that’s never been touched without being taken from.
Most People Don’t Know How to Receive — They Only Know How to Rush
You’re used to being touched with urgency.
Touched like your body is a machine.
Touched like your orgasm is a finish line.
Touched like the…