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If You Can’t Handle Her Tears After an Orgasm, You’re Not Ready for Sacred Sex.

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Let me break it to you like a man who’s fucked in the dark and made love in the light:

If you bolt the second a woman breaks down after sex — if you flinch when she cries, or call her “too emotional” when her body unravels in your arms — you’re not a real man.

You’re just another boy with a hard dick and a soft spine.

Because sacred sex isn’t just about getting her off.

It’s about holding her when the orgasm rips open something ancient.

And if that sentence made you uncomfortable, you’re the exact man who needs to read this.

That Wasn’t Just Cum — That Was Grief, Stored for Years

Here’s what your porn-addled brain won’t tell you:

Women carry trauma in their bodies.
Not just from assault, but from silence. Suppression. Years of pretending.

Years of faking orgasms, swallowing their truth, and tolerating disconnection while men jackhammered their way into self-validation.

So when you actually make her feel safe — when your presence is deep, when your energy is clean, when your…

Sensual: An Erotic Life
Sensual: An Erotic Life

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We publish essays about sex, sexuality and erotic relationships.

Soulitinerary
Soulitinerary

Written by Soulitinerary

Two travelers on a journey to explore what it means to live authentically through—mental well-being, spiritual connection, and the power of sexual wellness.

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