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4 Dangerous Lies Men Use to Manipulate Women
How to get control over your love life.
There are two types of manipulation. The first uses power. It’s when your mom forces you to do the dishes. It’s all about authority.
The second type of manipulation is way more dangerous. It uses words.
What makes it so dangerous is that you don’t realize you’re manipulated. You can’t see the situation clearly; you’re too invested. The lies become part of your core beliefs. You genuinely believe that’s just how things are. You can’t help it.
Men have used this manipulation to their advantage for years.
They make women believe these lies to have an edge on the relationship. This way, they can enjoy the benefits of a relationship without making equal efforts (because women make these efforts).
It’s time that stops.
When you learn what lies manipulate you, you can change the game. You can recognize what behaviors you dislike and pursue a healthier relationship. You’ll make genuine decisions and do things because you want to, not because you were manipulated.
Here are the lies men use to manipulate women:
