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5 Reasons To ‘Go Dutch’ If You Want To Get Married
Dutch dudes rock
If you’re a woman looking for a partner, I have one piece of advice: Go Dutch.
No, I don’t mean to share the tab for your date (though I believe in that, too.) Go to the Netherlands!
Within minutes of meeting my husband, who is Dutch, I knew I was going to marry him.
I immediately recognized that he was uncommonly kind and intelligent, and kindness was №1 on my dating wishlist after the horrific divorce I’d endured two years before.
Harrie flew back home to the Netherlands without so much as a kiss, but we started emailing each other and, eventually, talking on Yahoo Chat. (Yes, this was back in 2004.)
About seven months later, I finally flew to the Netherlands.
It was my first time in Europe — thanks to a crazy-low fare of about $300. (That was a gift from the universe, which owed me big after my awful divorce).