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From Wallflower to Warrior
How I Shine As An Introvert
I still remember the day I realized that being an introvert wasn’t a weakness, but a strength. I was in my early twenties, and I was struggling to navigate the complexities of social interactions.
I felt like I was constantly trying to please others, and in the process, I was slowly losing myself.
As an introvert, I’ve always been sensitive to the emotions of those around me.
I can walk into a room and immediately sense the mood of the people in it. It’s like I have a sixth sense that allows me to pick up on the subtlest cues.
But this sensitivity can also be a curse. I’ve often found myself taking on the emotions of others, and feeling overwhelmed by the weight of their feelings.
It was then that I realized I had a choice to make.
I could continue to try to please my colleague, nod to anything and avoid conflict, or I could stand up for myself and assert my own needs and feelings.
It wasn’t an easy decision, but I knew that I had to take a stand.
I took a deep breath, and I spoke up. I expressed my feelings and concerns, and I set clear boundaries.
