Green Flags, Red Flags, and the Value of Small Gestures

The secret to strong bonds.

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One thing I’ve learned in life is that relationships, like anything meaningful, require constant effort to grow and thrive. Think of them like plants — they need consistent nourishment and care. The results, much like the fruits of a well-tended garden, reflect the energy and dedication you’ve put in.

There are times when a relationship might not turn out the way you hoped, or a job might not value your efforts. But I firmly believe that the work you put into anything will eventually come back to you, even if it’s in an unexpected form. I strongly believe in karma. Everything you do and receive is connected. The rewards of your efforts may not always come in the way you imagine, but they do come — a happy marriage, a loving child, a fulfilling promotion, or even something as simple as a small joy that fills your heart.

To truly embrace these rewards, you need to approach life with open arms and a willingness to accept what comes your way. Sometimes, the reward might be small, but its impact can be immense.

I will tell you a short story here.

My manager recently shared that her husband, with whom she’s been married for 30 years makes her tea every morning. A small gesture, but one that has sustained…