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How to Be a Confident & Fluent Speaker — Even When You’re Not

3 min readMay 2, 2025

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Have you ever frozen mid-sentence while speaking a new language, even though you knew the words?

You’re not alone. Here’s the truth: Fluency doesn’t start with vocabulary.
It starts with courage.

Most people believe becoming fluent means memorizing thousands of words, mastering every grammar rule, and speaking with flawless pronunciation.

That’s not how fluency works.

The real obstacle isn’t your memory — it’s your mindset.

The Japanese Mental Model That Unlocks Confidence

In Japan, there’s a concept called “Shoshin”, or the Beginner’s Mind.

It’s about approaching everything with openness, eagerness, and no assumptions — even if you’re already experienced.

Apply that to language learning, and you unlock real progress.

You stop fearing mistakes. You start taking more risks.
You begin to grow —…

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Dr. Alex Steinberg
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Written by Dr. Alex Steinberg

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