This Is What Love Feels Like (When It’s Actually Love)

Because sometimes it’s something more subdued, profound, and genuine than butterflies or drama.

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Many lessons about love are taught to us. that a spark is involved. That’s passion. That it’s restless nights, lustful looks, and impromptu raindrop kisses.

However, most romantic comedies omit this fact: Fireworks aren’t always a sign of true love.
Love can be tender at times. It can be quiet at times. There are moments when it feels more like calm than mayhem.

So, how can you tell if it’s love? Like, truly love — not lust, not infatuation, not obsession encased in candlelight and red flags?

This is how it feels. From someone who has experienced it, missed it, and figured out the difference.

1. You Feel Safe — Not Scared

Walking on eggshells shouldn’t be a part of love. You shouldn’t feel nervous, perplexed, or uncertain all the time.

You don’t overthink every word or worry about the next text when it’s real. You don’t question whether you’re “too much” or “not enough.” You simply feel secure. Emotionally as well as physically.