It’s Your Fault

“1 Person: It’s your fault you need to accept this….why are you so being persistent? Why are you denying what you actually did?

2nd Person: Okay, I am sorry, I shouldn’t do this that was by mistake.

1st Person: So, is this it, that’s what you want. But it was your mistake as well you should be feeling sorry too. Because your tone and words are quite hurtful.

2nd Person: Why would I say sorry I didn’t do anything wrong. It was you who started to argue, and I only state the facts. So, is it wrong for me to tell only the truth.”

This is just a normal example of conversation that mostly happened in between friends or colleagues or any other relationship.

But what is the important element that is missing in this argument is “acceptance”. Sorry, I said it wrong because if there is a capacity to accept your mistakes then the argument shouldn’t be started.

Why is saying sorry difficult? Is it really hard or do you need some secret power to do so?

But yeah, one thing for sure is that you need confidence to accept what you did wrong. Do you need to say sorry when you physically hurt someone, don’t your harsh words or rude behavior count in this?