Published inPrism & PenLove Like This: Being Fat, Queer, and Left Behind Nearly Broke MeWhat a Clorox toilet wand, a broken marriage, and three very different men taught me about being enough.6h agoA response icon16h agoA response icon1
Published inPrism & PenLove Like This: The Broken Road That Led This Gay Man to PolyamoryBefore I could find the love I needed, I had to lose the one I thought I’d built.5d agoA response icon25d agoA response icon2
Published inPrism & PenSay the Thing: How Does a Gay Man Grieve a Father Who Didn’t Love Him?Maybe by being the adult in the room and changing the cycle, with love.May 9A response icon28May 9A response icon28
Published inPrism & PenSay the Thing: a Gay Youngster Asked To Call Me Dad and Changed EverythingChosen, not born. Glitter, not guilt. One bar kid at a time.May 3A response icon13May 3A response icon13
Published inPrism & Pen“Say the Thing”: When Family Loves You WrongThat time healing started to feel like betrayal.Apr 29A response icon5Apr 29A response icon5
I Got Weighed on a Livestock ScaleAt my heaviest, I weighed 430 pounds.Apr 23A response icon1Apr 23A response icon1
“Say the Thing”: A Coming Out Story, a Goodbye, and the Lessons I’m Still LearningOriginally, most of the below was written for a scholarship essay contest. The prompt? “Tell us about your coming out process.” I did —…Apr 22A response icon2Apr 22A response icon2
Can We Afford to Support Caregivers-And Can We Afford Not To?Can we afford to support those who raised us — without bankrupting what’s left?Apr 19A response icon2Apr 19A response icon2