Just Saying What Might Be Good to Say

Studies suggest that children hear the word “no” or similar restrictive commands up to 400 times a day from adults. While setting boundaries is essential, the words we choose can shape a child’s confidence, emotional well-being, and sense of self-worth.

At Motivation.com, we believe in the power of positive communication. This is not a research-backed top ten list but a heartfelt collection from parents like us — words that uplift, encourage, and remind children they are loved.

We invite you to share your favorite phrases in the comments. Together, let’s build a Top 100 List and help make the world a more positive place for our kids.

11 Encouraging Things to Say to Your Child
I’m here to help you.
I understand.
I love laughing with you.
I love watching you _______ (play, explore, create, grow, etc.).
I trust you.
That’s a great idea!
You make me so proud.
The world is better because of you.
I believe in you.
I love you.
Yes! (Because sometimes, saying “yes” is just what they need to hear.)