Why Do You Always Find Yourself Single

It’s not them, it’s you

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Iused to have two friends, who, the majority of the time were single. They happen to have the same name, paradoxically.

It was not hard to imagine why they were single.

They were always whining and moaning about everything; about their life in general and how the dating scene has changed dramatically (if that were true we would all be single).

They seem to have this toxicity about them that always repelled me. To my eyes they were quirky, lazy, spoilt, entitled (for no reason), and just really unpleasant to be around. I never really understood why they were my friends in the first place.

And I don’t miss them one bit…

Attracting Drama: Sounds Familiar?

So why are you still single?

The excuses:

• He is not ready for a relationship
• No more drama, no more hassle (legit)
• You can be selfish and put your own needs first without feeling guilty (legit)