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Respect Cannot be Second Fiddle To Love!
Why arguing correctly is important in a relationship!
The ability to completely get your point across in an argument without losing the essence of respect in your words.
If you feel the need to say something or say something in a manner that is intended just to hurt them, are you not prioritizing your need to come out of an argument unscathed or less hurt than the other person?
Regardless of whether you regret it later or not, the cuts of your words will take longer to recover than any other. This is often the case with couples that lose themselves in the “passion” of love but forget to understand the requirement of respect in an individual capacity.
What use of your love if your partner doesn’t feel respected in your eyes? I’m sure we all know people who say unacceptable things during an argument, especially when it gets heated when they fail to get their points across in a gentle manner, or maybe when they feel unheard, and later when they have cooled off and have had the time to rethink the entire conversation they justify their words and actions as a “spur of the moment reaction” to the heated argument, they got “carried away”.
They claim that this does not mean that they do not love this person. Instead, they point out that it is…
