Dating Smart: 6 Red Flags and 6 Green Flags That Matter Most

A practical guide for navigating modern love with clarity and confidence.

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Let’s be honest. Modern dating has shifted dramatically. Expectations have become blurred, and traditional roles have evolved. Some people seek deep affection without offering emotional effort. Others desire commitment without clarity. Many still treat loyalty like a convenience, not a value. Many now find themselves doing the inner work for both people while still hoping to be met with the kind of love that feels mutual and secure.

Everyone wants to be chosen, but no one wants to do the choosing. Everyone wants love, but few want to build the safety that makes love last.

So, here’s the real question, one that I know so many of us are asking:

When did romance get replaced with confusion, games, and emotional debris and where the hell are the good ones hiding?

Every time we go onto a dating app, we’re quickly reminded why we’re still single. The…