SIT WITH THE PEOPLE WHO PROTECTS YOUR NAME IN YOUR ABSENCE

“In the end, we will remember not the words of our enemies, but the silence of our friends.”
— Dr. Martin Luther King Jr.

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Sit with the people who protect your name in your absence.

You ever had someone smile in your face and slice your reputation the second you turn your back? Yeah, me too. And I learned, sometimes the hard way, that not everyone who claps for you is cheering for your win. Some are just keeping rhythm until you fall.

This piece—this truth—is for those of us who’ve lived enough life to know what betrayal feels like. This is for the ones who’ve bled in silence, who’ve kept it together when their name was dragged through mud by people they once called brother, sister, friend, or teammate. It’s for the warriors. For the veterans—military or not—who’ve fought battles seen and unseen, physical and emotional, internal and relational.

Let’s get something straight: Your name is everything.

I don’t care how fit you are, how rich you become, how many followers you have. If your name doesn’t hold weight—if people don’t associate it with honor, respect, loyalty—you’ve already lost. Because when you're not in the room, it’s your name that speaks for you. And the question is: who’s speaking with it? Who’s protecting…