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Sibling Rivalry: These Foes Need to Be Friends

5 min readOct 2, 2024

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Two angry little boys fighting over a teddy bear tug of war style.
Photo by Vika Glitter:

Kids fight.

All the time. About everything and anything.

I have yet to meet a parent of multiple children who didn't spend most of their time settling petty squabbles. They could be out there enjoying their peace and togetherness; I just haven’t met them yet.

Probably because I am too busy refereeing.

That is a fight every seven to eight minutes.

This means if you are a parent of two or more children you hear this every few minutes:

“It’s not fair”

“He/She hit me”

“He/she won’t let me play”

“He/She took my Legos”

I could go on and on.

I have two small children one boy 8 (almost 9) and my girl is five. This is the perfect recipe for sibling rivalry. I say rivalry, but I am being too gentle, it is straight-up war.

She is little and wants to play. He has had it with playing Barbies and having a little sister who always gets her way. He takes pleasure in making her scream by taking her toys. His favorite thing…

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S.M. Whiddon
S.M. Whiddon

Written by S.M. Whiddon

a mom, a wife, a chef, and a writer

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