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Etiquette Rules Have Changed
It’s a sign of the times
Is your mother a stickler for etiquette? Does she berate you if you wear white after Labor Day?
Long ago, rules have evolved dramatically because the times have changed.
Thomas Farley, says:
“Contrary to popular belief, etiquette is not an immovable, inviolable set of expectations forged in bronze but rather societal guidelines that are designed to evolve as the culture changes.”
It is appropriate to wear white year-round. Educate your mother!
This norm was established decades ago when the upper-class wore white to symbolize summer vacations that their working-class peers couldn’t afford.
Mariah Brumet Humbert concurs. She is the founder of :
“When we consider the true meaning of etiquette at its core, which is awareness and consideration for others, that has not evolved.” She continues, “However, etiquette guidelines for various social and professional situations have kept up well with the evolution of our world and society.”
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