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Her Wetness Is a Reaction, Not a Compliment — Read That Again
By someone who learned the truth the hard way
Let’s start with what nobody had the balls to teach you:
Her wetness isn’t an applause.
It’s not a badge for your ego.
It’s not a sign that your “stroke game” is elite.
It’s not proof that you’re a man.
It’s a physiological reaction.
To how safe she feels.
To how seen she feels.
To how deeply her body believes it can finally let its guard down.
And if you still think her wetness is about you,
then you’ve never really been with a woman.
“Arousal in women is an intricate blend of emotional connection and psychological safety,” says Dr. Lori Brotto, a clinical psychologist and sex researcher at the University of British Columbia. “It’s not about technique. It’s about trust.”
Let that marinate in your chest for a second.
I Used to Think I Was Good at Sex
I knew where the clit was.
I had rhythm.
I knew how to last.
