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Everything Starts Within You
The world is what you make of it
The world is just a reflection of your inner self. Whatever you find outside of you is the result of an inner process that has been going on for some time. Some of these processes are subconscious and have been running since early childhood. Sometimes, this will lead to the same situations over and over again.
Maybe you always run into the same type of partner; whenever you get the feeling everything is in place, everything falls apart, or you always have issues with the same kind of person. Some people have issues with women, and some are with men. But it’s not only related to people; it also applies to situations.
Why is that?
Why do we always end up in these kinds of situations? The answer is short and bitter: it reflects our inner selves.
We get into these situations to have a chance to look in the mirror and see the unhealed wounds within ourselves. These wounds are sometimes long forgotten but still persist. Maybe it's because of a loveless childhood, a neglectful parent, an unavailable father, or an overstrained mother. It doesn't matter what, but the past left unhealed scars waiting for a cure.
Usually, when we break up, we tend to regret our decision to fall in love with our ex. Instead, we need…
