Arranged Marriage or Love Marriage
The Real Key to Happiness
When I first started writing, I came across numerous articles on marriage and love. At that time, I told myself I would never write about these topics because I’ve always believed that love is unique to each individual. It can mean different things to different people, and relationship dynamics vary from one person to another. So, I thought my opinion on the subject wouldn’t be entirely accurate. But after some reflection, I’ve come to realize that there’s nothing wrong with expressing my own perspective.
To get to the point, I believe it doesn’t matter whether you have an arranged marriage or a love marriage, as long as you’re marrying the right person. The concept of the “right person” can vary from one individual to another because we all have different personalities, beliefs, and perceptions. Your right person is someone with whom you can share everything, someone in front of whom you can reveal all your imperfections, yet they’ll still want you. They’ll make you feel like you’ve just met them yesterday, never growing bored of you. This person will make you believe that you are the most important thing in their world.
You will definitely meet many people throughout your life, but only a few will make you feel truly special, and even fewer will be those with whom you want to share your life. Finding that person is incredibly difficult.
But when you meet your person, don’t let them slip away. Don’t let any third party ruin your relationship. No matter what others say, hold on to that person until the very end. The opinions of others are just noise; they don’t know what truly makes you happy. Only you know what you want, so why let anyone else decide for you? I’ve heard countless stories of people who met the right person at the right time, only to lose them by giving too much importance to things — and people — that shouldn’t have mattered in that moment.
Give yourself the chance for the happy ending you deserve. Don’t let anyone take that away from you. Stand up for yourself, because if you don’t, no one else can help you. My mother once told me, “Even God helps those who help themselves.”
