INSECURITIES ARE NORMAL:
My journey of insecurities started when I was in 9th standard and suddenly I gained a lot of weight and pimples all over my face. I still remember how my friends and my cousins made fun of me and how my teachers and family members filled my mind with many things that made me lose my confidence.
I was the smartest kid in my family. Does that count? No. Why? Because in other people's minds, how you look is way more important than your smartness.
Now I’m 25, but still each time I get ready one question comes to mind - AM I LOOKING BEAUTIFUL? No matter how much we try to stay confident, “some kind of insecurities are going to stay with us and it’s totally normal.’’
No one has a perfect remedy to cure your insecurity. So what do we do then?
“Just take a deep breath, and enjoy. Enjoy your life with all the flaws you have, stay happy the way you are, and don’t run behind other people’s standards. You are not a fictional girl or boy who needs to be perfect in all aspects.’’
You look ugly, you put on weight, you become too thin, you are good for nothing, you are dumb, you are a loser, you sound over-smart, you are clingy, you become so selfish, you are childish, you act more mature than your age , etc. Work on your attitude, work on your face, work on your body. Blah blah blah.
I'm 1000% sure you all listened to one of those sentences somewhere in your life. There are so many criticisms and suggestions on the market. But do you need them? Not at all.
Listen to your inner voice:
Stand up in front of the mirror and ask yourself — do I need to change? Your heart knows all the answers just listen to it carefully.
“You should learn to listen to your own opinion, your heart is like a judge in your life so listen carefully to all its orders otherwise you will create a mess out of yourself.’’
What will happen if you listen to others:
If you are a selfish person people come to you and criticize you for your selfishness, but on the other hand, if you are too generous and selfless human they will definitely come to you and advise you to put yourself first.
You go, work on your body and face. Glow up and become gorgeous. I'll bet you will still encounter people who don't find you attractive.
You will be left out with self-doubt, low confidence, and a disturbed mind.
Long story short NO matter how much you try you will always find yourself within the pool of insecurities and criticism.
ADVICE – “DO WHAT YOUR HEART SAYS Our heart is very well aware of our flaws and strengths. Ask yourself first, because the advice you will get from your heart is all you need in your life. INSECURITIES ARE MEANT TO MAKE YOU SECURE.
Trust yourself. Your heart is always here to guide you. As long as your intentions are pure everything you do will automatically turn out good. Do good to yourself and to the people you are surrounded with.
