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What If “Manic Pixie Dream Girl” Was Just A Regular Autistic Woman?

The overlooked signs of neurodivergence in women

Caz ~❀
5 min readMay 14, 2025

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I recently came across a satirical article by writer Sarah Gibbs, titled:

Gibbs writes:

“A man who thought his quirky girlfriend would magically fix all his debilitating personal issues has been left “hurt and disappointed” after she transpired to be an ordinary autistic woman…”

I laughed — because it rings true.

What is a “Manic Pixie Dream Girl”?

If you haven’t come across the term “Manic Pixie Dream Girl”, it was coined by film critic Nathan Rabin in his .

He used it to describe the character Claire (played by Kirsten Dunst).

He writes:

“The Manic Pixie Dream Girl exists solely in the fevered imaginations of sensitive writer-directors to teach broodingly soulful young men to embrace life and its infinite mysteries and adventures.”

In the film, Claire is a flight attendant whose coy flirtations and bubbly, impulsive charm are the perfect remedy for a depressed young man.

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Caz ~❀
Caz ~❀

Written by Caz ~❀

I write about women with ADHD + motherhood + mental health. Current PhD researcher. Lover of words and connection.

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