Dear Non-Committal Men,

Something I wrote in the past and am now sharing

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I’m fed up. My heart can’t take it anymore. I am tired of giving my heart to people who just can’t commit.

They’ve all wanted me. They have showed it, expressed it… But when it comes to actual commitment, they come up with their lame excuses.

I don’t give a shit if you want to focus on your career.

I don’t give a shit if you are moving to another country.

I don’t give a shit if you can’t be in a relationship right now, for whatever reason.

That’s fine by me. But what’s not fine is leading me on, telling me how much I mean to you, telling me how much you feel for me, how you would love to be with me if “the timing was right” (another fucking lame excuse), giving me false hopes and promises and then breaking my heart.

Am I a fucking toy? To be played with and discarded at a moment’s notice? To be honest, I blame myself. For my choice in men. For trying to think of a future with men who just aren’t about marriage and commitment.

It just breaks my heart. It’s not like I gave my heart to obvious fuckboys. These are real, genuine, amazing guys. Decent, well-to-do, well educated, kind hearted men. But they don’t want commitment. None of them do. It’s…