💔 Dear Foreigner: Stop Paying for Other People’s (OP) in the Philippines

How Foreign Men Get Tricked into Supporting Other People’s Girlfriends in the Philippines — And How to Avoid It

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If you’re a foreigner dating — or thinking about dating — a Filipina, this might be the most important article you’ll read today.

Too many foreign guys are unknowingly paying for OP — aka Other People’s girlfriends, lovers, or even wives. Sounds harsh? It’s real. I’ve seen it every day for years. Some guys are oblivious, others are in denial, and some just refuse to face the truth.

Here are the 6 biggest ways foreigners end up paying for OP in the Philippines — and how to stop yourself from becoming the next victim.

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🚩 OP #1: Sending Money to a Filipina You Met Online

Let’s be honest — if you’re sending cash to a woman you met on a dating site and haven’t even met in person, you’re paying for OP.

No, she’s not “waiting for you” alone in the jungle. No, she didn’t fall for just you among thousands of online admirers because you send her $100 every time she asks. Wake up.