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This Is Why a Perfect Person Like You Still Can’t Get A Date
You just don’t know these realities.
It was actually distressing to me to see my amazingly perfect friends’ every attempt at landing a simple date ending up in a disaster.
One fine evening when I was thinking about them I realized they all have some features that make others just overlook them.
You could be a wonderful human being but if you also have these features, chances are you too are not going to get a good date.
You are giving too much
Healthy relationships are based mostly on a balance of power. If you stand there showing someone else that you are always going to do your part as well as their part, they would start to lose interest in you. You should give your best, but it shouldn’t come off as doing too much to please the other.
Always keep yourself in check so that the other person has to actively make an effort to be with you. Too much effort to please someone else is not going to serve you well.
