🔥Keep Him Falling in Love Every Day
Practical Advice for Creating a LASTING BOND.
Once you have been in a relation for a while.
One of the most common frustrations women express in a relationship is, “He just doesn’t take actions anymore”.
And when you try to communicate your feelings, he usually shrug that off, labelling your concerns as “nagging” or “complaining”.
Over time, this erodes the spark in the relationship — it kills romance, attraction and polarity.
And TBH, it usually doesn’t feel good for him either.
When this happens, it’s not about blaming or forcing changes.
Instead, it’s about understanding the deeper dynamics at play, let’s understand:
What’s Really Happening?
Generally, in most relationships, the man embodies the masculine energy, while the woman embodies feminine energy.
However, when a man is not stepping up in the relationship, or when he’s not putting in the efforts, or when he’s not leading, or when he’s not making plans and when he starts being a little bit more passive.
He tends to lean more into his feminine energy.
Now it doesn’t necessarily mean that he is a feminine man, it just means that in the context of the relationship at least, he’s leaning more into his feminine energy.
So, in relationship, when your partner starts being a bit more passive, what naturally happens, this shift disrupts the natural polarity, and as a result, you may unconsciously Step Up and start being a little bit more masculine.
Naturally you start trying to direct and be controlling, and take over to lead.
Partners tend to naturally be complimentary opposites a bit, which we see more often in Instagram reels.
Like if our partner is more introvert and very logical, very realistic, then maybe we start being more extrovert and very dreamy, a little bit or more intuitive.
So, when our partner gets more passive and isn’t putting in the effort, we naturally tends to step into a more masculine role to compensate.
While this compensation feels natural in the moment, it often leads to clash of view points, misunderstandings, and loss of attraction over time.
What Should You Do Instead?
That is why, you have to do the exact opposite.
Here’s the secret: You cannot let him shifting into his feminine energy take you out of being in yours.
You cannot let his passivity trigger you to shift your behavior and take you out of being your best-self.
So,
What will YOU do when this Happens?
- You’re going to FOCUS on yourself
- You’re going to live your BEST life — pursue your hobbies, passions, and goals
- You’re going to TAKE CARE of yourself
- You’re going to make yourself HAPPY
- And you’re gonna do all the things that I have mentioned .👇🏻
But,
- You’re not going to take over
- You’re not going to tell him what to do
- You’re not going to tell him what he needs to change
- You’re not going to try to control him
- You’re not going to try to solve all his problems for him
Now of course you can clearly communicate to him what you desire, without forcing anything on him.
Taking Over Pushes Him Away
When you try to take over the relationship and tell him what to do or pointing out what he’s doing wrong.
As you unintentionally send the message that he’s not good enough or capable.
So, the minute you try to fix him or control him, is the minute you lose him.
He may still love you very much but his desire to pursue you will fizzle out.
He won’t feel that deep romantic attraction to you!
Remember, love thrives on polarity. đź’–
By focusing on your own joy, independence, and authenticity, you become magnetic — not through force or control, but through the power of your presence.
This makes him crave for you and purse you in everyday!
Read this👇🏻: If you want to know, “Why We Keep Choosing the Wrong Partners? And, How to Finally Attract the Right One?”
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