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5 Secrets to Maintain Your Relationship — For a Long Time
Come, gather around.
Many of us can fall in love, but how many of us can maintain the relationships for a long time? Thinking back on everything that happened for the past decade, these are some things I have realized the hard way.
Know what hurts them — and avoid doing it
One of the most important things you have to know in a relationship is, knowing the likes and dislikes of your partner.
But even more important to know are the things that hurt them.
If they feel hurt from the topic of their toxic family, don’t try to talk about it. If they are hurt by feeling abandoned, don’t leave them unexpectedly.
Knowing what hurts them, and avoiding them will bring less drama and more harmony into your relationship.
But sometimes the way you see life itself may be hurtful to them. That’s why you should always try to date within your level of understanding. For more information on that, read the following article.