Reflecting on the Rhythm of Life Lessons Through the Rear-View Mirror

Hindsight is always 20/20.

Photo by from

The other day I was watching excited kids getting their school supplies. They were full of giggles and had bright eyes as they chose their new pens, books, and pencil cases. They were anticipating their return to school and to start learning new things. Every year of school meant they were moving closer to being grown-up, and they couldn’t wait to get to that magical place.

Tagging behind them was an exhausted Dad, carrying a list of the needed supplies. His shoulders sagged with the responsibility of raising these energetic children in this unprecedented time. I could almost hear his thoughts,” Don’t grow up, just don’t do it. It’s not what you think.”

The scene brought back vivid memories of when my kids were small. They were full of energy and anticipation about the beginning of another school year. I recall the delight in their eyes when they picked out that special pencil case or lunch box that would become a treasured item.

I recall my exhaustion at having to figure out the new routines, planning lunches, and attempts to get them to bed on time. Unfortunately, my distraction with the business of life robbed me of the joy of participating in this event.