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Your Feelings Matter
Your feelings Matter!
Your feelings Matter!
I say that with such passion because I know what it's like to get your feelings brushed off time and time again. I don’t want anyone to feel that same pain it’s such a deep wound so if no one has told you. Your feelings matter!
I want you to tell yourself they matter because if we learn to ignore our feelings then we can begin to lack boundaries and that can affect your future relationships.
You deserve to be heard.
You deserve to be heard.
Abandoning yourself when you need to stand up for yourself can be so easy, I know it helps to not have communication conflict, but then what are you left with? Pain, resentment ect.
Show up for yourself when no one else does. Stand in your truth. Own your story.
If something in your life is causing you pain it’s ok to distance yourself from it and you may feel guilty, but you have a right at peace you have a right to be respected. I know it’s not always that easy, as it may come from family and when it comes from family it hurts the most, so the best you can do is have healthy boundaries.
A Mother or Father wound is especially the hardest because as a child and adult that is who you look to help you in a time of need so if they are the ones causing it that can deepen the wound, but again your feelings matter you deserve to have a voice.
I wrote this that in hopes it would reach someone who needs to hear it like I do in this moment that your feelings matter! Please don’t go another day abandoning yourself show up for yourself.
A note to you and a note to me.
